Yesterday was my birthday, with all the love around me—-my dear husband and my lovely son, whatever we did, we had fun and we are happy.

Today I got an email from one of my Chinese readers, saying she is having very serious melancholia.  Her name is XM, and she is still a high school student.  She told her doctor that she doesn’t remember ever being happy for a couple of years,  she doubts if she want to keep herself alive…  Well, my dear young friend, I have to thank you for you writing to me and I am happy that my blog brings you some happiness.  I wish I could know you more and I could do better to make you happy….

Last night, I told my husband that my final birthday wish is to spank Red Bear really hard since he was behaving really bad yesterday on my Birthday. You know, right now, I wish my Birthday wish can be expanded a little bit—-I want you to be Happy! and Happy everyday!

Since my last birthday wish didn’t come true—-to spank Red Bear really hard…So can you please make my expanded Birthday wish come true? Please?

In Chinese:

昨天是我的生日, 被爱包围着—有我亲爱的老公和可爱的宝宝, 不管在这一天干了什么, 大家都很开心.

今天收到了一位中国朋友的来信, 信中她告诉我她是一位高中生, 患了严重的抑郁症. 她告诉她的医生说她已经在好几年没有一天开心过. 她怀疑是不是还是要继续生存下去.

亲爱的小米, 我要感谢你写信给我, 很开心我的博客曾经给过你一些快乐, 真的希望以前就可以多了解你, 我可以做得更好让你开心.

昨天晚上, 我和老公说我生日的最后一个愿望就是要给Red Bear一顿毒打, 因为他在这生日的这一天实在是太混蛋太不讲道理了.不过你知道吗? 现在我希望我的生日愿望可以再延长一点—-就是希望你开心 , 每一天都开心!!! 你知道我生日的最后一个愿望—-毒打Red Bear一顿是不可能实现的了, 那么, 你可以帮我实现我生日的那个延长愿望吗? 开心起来, 好吗?

生活里快乐的3个特大基本原素: 1. 找些事情去做, 2. 找些事情去爱, 3.充满希望

I was wearing: Camilla & Marc Dress(c/o), ASOS faux fur coat(old, similar style here), H&M legging(old), Theysken’s Theory Wedges, Target Wallet, Necklace and star rings and cuff (c/o  Luv Aj), NOir Bracelet, Ray Ban Sunglasses